why so serious !

A persons ability to be happy in diverse situations he or she is in makes one better than many.

 A friend once told me this when i was too fucked up with life. It took me some time to realise how much those words meant. If you are in the worst of conditions and there is some one better than you in all aspects that you see, However if you smile with life more and fight but also know how to keep yourself happy, i would see you to be better than him or her, i see you as a winner since you can be happy with all the fuckups in life. Out of your experiences in life you should be able to look back and tell your self that you did a good job when you were fucked up or atleast even if you failed somewhere you learned from it and became a better person. 

There is nothing much to it. There is less to talk and more to do. If you can change your strongly rooted habits that make you what you are and stretch the boundaries, you have done it. Advice comes for free, Will and decision making come from within the shit hole called you. And believe me you have to put your hand way down to reach for it. If you can pull it out, Eureka! Most of us keep crying because we are unable to change. Regret for the same thing twice tells you that you are still latched on. Move on, man ! People say "i have seen life since i have been through lots". But these fuck ups don't make you better. How you take them, how you come out of it and how do you let that phase affect your life is what makes you better. we are too busy satisfying our egos and over reacting  to things. All the shit i just said is as simple as i said it and as difficult when it comes to application. The ones who can bridge the gap between Good Advice, Self realisation and application are up there. 

Not dead !  Just better people.